{"id":444652,"date":"2025-11-18T07:50:55","date_gmt":"2025-11-18T06:50:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.pcnen.com\/portal\/?p=444652"},"modified":"2025-11-18T07:51:23","modified_gmt":"2025-11-18T06:51:23","slug":"tri-stvari-koje-ne-mozete-da-promijenite-u-zivotu-ali-morate-da-ih-shvatite","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.pcnen.com\/portal\/2025\/11\/18\/tri-stvari-koje-ne-mozete-da-promijenite-u-zivotu-ali-morate-da-ih-shvatite\/","title":{"rendered":"Tri stvari koje ne mo\u017eete da promijenite u \u017eivotu &#8211; ali morate da ih shvatite"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Argentinski pisac dr Horhe Bukaj, koji je tako\u0111e psihijatar i psihoterapeut sa velikim iskustvom, pisao je u jednoj od svojih knjiga o va\u017enim istinama do kojih je do\u0161ao u svom \u017eivotu.<\/p>\n<p>Bukaj ka\u017ee da postoje tri stvari koje su istinite.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Prva istina je: \u201eU ovom trenutku, sve je onakvo kakvo jeste.\u201c<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Stvari su onakvo kakve jesu. Nisu onakvo kakve \u017eelim da budu ili kakve su nekada bile ili kakve c\u0301e biti. Sve je onakvo kakvo jeste.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Druga istina je: \u201eDobre stvari nisu besplatne.\u201c<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Dobre stvari nisu ba\u0161 besplatne. Morate platiti cenu. Ne uvek ekonomski, ne u novcu, ali morate platiti. Dobre stvari nisu besplatne. I to morate shvatiti. Suprotno gledi\u0161te je detinjasto. Ja ovo \u017eelim i zato \u0161to me volite, morate mi to dati besplatno. To nije \u017eivot, to nije istina. \u017divot je razmena. Ako ne\u0161to vredi ne\u0161to, morate platiti cenu. Lo\u0161e stvari su ponekad besplatne. Ali dobre stvari ne dolaze besplatno.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Trec\u0301a istina je: \u201eNe mo\u017ee\u0161 da radi\u0161 \u0161ta god \u017eeli\u0161.\u201c<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ne mo\u017ee\u0161 da radi\u0161 \u0161ta god \u017eeli\u0161. Ali uvek mo\u017ee\u0161 da izbegne\u0161 stvari koje ne \u017eeli\u0161 da radi\u0161. Ne mo\u017ee\u0161 da uradi\u0161 sve, ali uvek mo\u017ee\u0161 da ka\u017ee\u0161 ne. To je na\u0161a privilegija jer smo ljudska bic\u0301a, i to je na\u0161e pravo.<\/p>\n<p>\u201eDa, nije bilo lako doc\u0301i do ovih istina, ali mislim da one i dalje va\u017ee. Mo\u017eda se to jednog dana mo\u017ee promeniti i rec\u0301i c\u0301u vam, ali tako je sada\u201c, ka\u017ee Horhe Bukaj. (izvor: Metropolitan.si.\/nova.rs)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Argentinski pisac dr Horhe Bukaj, koji je tako\u0111e psihijatar i psihoterapeut sa velikim iskustvom, pisao je u jednoj od svojih knjiga o va\u017enim istinama do kojih je do\u0161ao u svom \u017eivotu.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":322137,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"none","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-444652","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-svastara"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.pcnen.com\/portal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/444652","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.pcnen.com\/portal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.pcnen.com\/portal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pcnen.com\/portal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pcnen.com\/portal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=444652"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.pcnen.com\/portal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/444652\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":444655,"href":"https:\/\/www.pcnen.com\/portal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/444652\/revisions\/444655"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pcnen.com\/portal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/322137"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.pcnen.com\/portal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=444652"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pcnen.com\/portal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=444652"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pcnen.com\/portal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=444652"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}